Pack your grief into a box Tie it with a bow
Weigh it down with heavy rocks So it sinks to the depths below
Send it out in the dark of night Under a haze of clouds
Forget its ever troubling blight Don’t speak its name aloud
Don’t cry or wail or show your hand Keep your feelings tucked inside
A woman doesn’t make demands Within limits she resides
Get up, get dressed, be demure Smile sweetly with your eyes
Again and again, daily, endure Hide your grief in your disguise
Peace, be still, go onward now Show grace in all you do
A wink, a nod, a curtsied bow Another perfect performance by you
Day in and out to all your meet Another easy sell
For all they see, while incomplete Is how you grieve so well